I have always been fascinated by how we interact with each other. As a relatively shy child I would watch the other children playing without a care in the world, I on the other hand was incredibly anxious and preferred my own company. After years of work to understand myself with the help of other wonderful practitioners and colleagues I realised, it doesn't have to be this way, I have a choice. I felt I had uncovered the secret to a much happier life and had to share this seemingly unknown revelation! You can adapt, change and learn to leave negative emotions behind. Who knew? Now, I'm no higher being, I don’t have all the answers, and I have struggled just like you. I have hidden in cupboards to escape my screaming children, had days off work where I could not function because I was so anxious and avoided social situations because I would rather hide away from the world. But, after much denial, avoidance and always a sense of humour I found I had learnt how to protect myself with defence mechanisms I don't need anymore, well, I've kept the humour, as you can tell, but I felt free, more accepting of myself and I want this for you. I will be with you through tears, anger and all your defences until you are ready to forgive and find compassion for yourself and others.
As you have seen, I am an Integrative Psychotherapist. What does that even mean, right? Well, I believe there isn't just one therapeutic approach that can help clients in all situations. Instead, I consider your circumstances and you as an individual and use elements of different approaches to help you explore and cope with your problems.
Of course, I am a registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) which means I abide by their core principles to ensure your safety and mine. This includes;
I also attend regular supervision, this is where I consult an experienced colleague whilst maintaining confidentiality to ensure I am always focused on what is best for my clients, continually developing and ensuring my own self-care to be able to bring you an ethical and safe service.
If I sound as though we could be a good fit, head over to my Contact page and let me know what you need.